Sometimes the silver lining is so far away you can hardly
see it. Other times, you question if there is any silver lining at all. As
Christians, we are taught Romans 8:28, all
things work together for the good..., but do we truly believe this
scripture? Intellectually, we can easily apply this verse to our lives as long
as our circumstances are non-stressful. Work, friends, occasional arguments
seem benign. What about the circumstances that makes us more vulnerable, such
as abandonment, disease and/or death?
It is extremely difficult to believe all things work together for the good of those who love the Lord, when
God is allowing difficult times in our life. Fear can easily eclipse faith and
negative thoughts take hold. We ask ourselves, “Why, what is the point, and how
could God let this happen?” Fear-based thoughts can lead to depression and then
isolation sets in. Eventually, we disconnect from others and God.
Finding a way to maintain faith in the midst of pain seems
to be the answer. Prayer, inspirational music and fellowship are a few ways to
stay plugged in to God. He will not prevent bad things from happening on earth,
but He can help you move through the experience. While all situations may not be
good, God promises to work them out for your ultimate benefit. You can place
your faith in His promises; know that God will guide you to that silver lining.
Rachel Rowitt Ed.D., LMHC, CAP | Grace Counseling, Inc.
