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Our parents and
grandparents are suffering increased diseases related to cognitive dysfunction
and memory issues. Leading the way is Alzheimer’s Disease. Many will have to watch as their parents
forget special memories, forget who they are and watch them developmentally
break down before they pass on. Alzheimer’s Disease has no set time limit and
often the suffering can be prolonged. This is a harsh way to watch someone die.
Alzheimer's is a progressive disease, where
dementia symptoms gradually worsen over a number of years and individuals lose
the ability to carry on a conversation and respond to their environment. Alzheimer's
is the sixth leading cause of death in the United States. https://www.alz.org/alzheimers_disease_what_is_alzheimers.asp
Research typically
highlights the preventative measures one can take to increase their chances of
non-development, but there really are no black and white answers to this
problem. Someone with Alzheimer’s is cognitively impaired and unable to
advocate for themselves. The progression of this disease requires 24/7 care.
Loved ones are forced to place their Alzheimer’s family member is housing
facilities where they are at the mercy of the owners and staff members.
The family is held
hostage by this disease and members are not able to control their loved one’s environmental
circumstances. Facility managers may state, “Your loved one with Alzheimer’s is
blissfully unaware and not bothered by materialistic circumstances.” Blissful
unawareness does not decrease the pain of having to leave their parent, sister,
brother, aunt, or uncle behind.
As consumers, we can be
diligent about our choices of where to house our loves ones with Alzheimer’s
Disease. We can stay involved with visiting them regularly, even if it is brief
visits. We can find supportive resources to help us manage our emotional
stress. Speaking to someone who can relate to this process can be most helpful
when exploring your options.
RACHEL ROWITT, ED.D,
LMHC, CAP | GRACE COUNSELING, INC.
